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How will Al-Anon help me?

Many who come to Al-Anon/Alateen are in despair, feeling hopeless, unable to believe that things can ever change. We want our lives to be different, but nothing we have done has brought about change. We all come to Al-Anon because we want and need help. In Al-Anon and Alateen, members share their own experience, strength and hope with each other. You will meet others who share your feelings and frustrations, if not your exact situations. We come together to learn a better way of life, to find happiness whether the alcoholic is still drinking or not.

 Alcoholism is a family disease. The disease affects all those who have a relationship with a problem drinker. Those of us closet to the alcoholic suffer the most and those who care the most can easily get caught up in the behavior of another person. We react to the alcoholic’s behavior. We focus on them, what they do, where they are, how much they drink. We try to control their drinking for them. We take on the blame, guilt and shame that really belong to the drinker. We can become as addicted to the alcoholic, as the alcoholic is to alcohol. We, too, can become ill.

 Are You Troubled by Someone’s Drinking?orDid You Grow Up With a Problem Drinker?orHas Your Life Been Affected by Someone Else’s Drinking?If you identify with some of these statements it is important to know that help and hope for friends and families of alcoholics is just an email away. You can find more resources at Al-Anon Family Groups.